Heather: Keywords for this remedy are Over-talkativeness, Chatterbox types, Attention seekers, Fear of being alone, Self-obsession, Self-centeredness, Self-concerned, showing off, need for recognition, rage, and indecision.
Certain people are attention seekers because they have a fear of being alone. Bach Flower Heather is the remedy for those types of people. These people are those who are afraid of being alone. Sometimes they don’t even like their own company.
Sufferers of this mental state have a fear of being alone because these types of people are over-talkative. We can say gossip is their full-time job. They get alone or avoided by other people since nobody likes an over-talkative person.
They will talk about you with others, rather than talking to you. Usually, the sufferers will tell you about their life experiences, here and there things or Stupid things, they will tell you about their parents, their friends, cousins, their acquaintances, sometimes talk foolish, etc. They also easily open up their secrets and transfer secrets to others as well.
Being talkative is not a bad habit but being over-talkative is slightly strange. When these over-talkative persons start talking to you, they will hardly stop.
They like to talk. They don’t like being alone. They have a fear of being alone. Because of their habit of being over-talkative, people usually ignore them. They don’t care about their surroundings in which environment they should talk and in which they should not. They can’t stop themselves from talking.
They can’t remain silent for a single hour. They get feverish if they do not talk with the person standing along with them. Also, they don’t care about whom they should talk to and how much they should talk. They just want to talk. Sometimes they may give a headache to the person to whom they talk. That’s why people start avoiding them.
Their attention-seeking urge sometimes becomes so intense that a person involves negative words in their gossip. Many people are good listeners because they wish to help others, these types of people can easily be trapped by the Heather personality type persons. With this disease, the sufferer suffers a great loss of energy.
The sufferer will find this type of interaction an incredible drain of their energies, both mental and spiritual. Generally, when one is a Heather type, it’s due to the fact that he is afraid of his own company. Some sufferers feel afraid, lonely, and vulnerable and do not like who they are.
Heather is the remedy or cure for these types of people. Heather helps the sufferer to keep their mind calm. Heather helps the sufferer to stabilize their mind and also helps the sufferer to overcome the fear of being alone. Heather helps to face the problems from which Heather person has to suffer.
Emotional Aspects and Symptoms of Heather
Some emotional aspects of a person who needs Heather are:
- self-absorption, self-adoration, and self-adulation
- desire to reverse aging
- aggravation due to persistence
- obsession with and enjoying talking in detail about ailments,
- alienation due to over-talkativeness
- dislike of being alone
- seeking attention
- no sense of belonging due to loneliness,
- talkative, bore, bubbly, excitable, and chatterbox
- compulsive talker
- a compulsive liar for attention
- concerned about self
- mental congestion through selfish
- absorption and enjoys conversation
- demanding and dominating
- dependent on people to talk to
- exaggerates for sympathy and attention
- seeks, desires, and anxious for excitement
- an extrovert by nature
- eye-contact-close to face-direct
- fear of losing friends
- fear for oneself if ill
- fixation with self
- garrulous and gregarious
- haughty through vanity /self-obsessed
- simulated illness
- a high opinion of one’s own image
- insecure and clings to others
- lack of interest due to self-absorption
- interference by talking of self
- introspection and lust
- invokes illness to obtain sympathy
- a martyr for affection /attention
- misbehavior to gain attention
- nosy and dramatic
- ostracized due to unrelenting talkativeness
- overanxious for self
- generally ponder on self
- possessiveness and preoccupation with self
- rejection with overconcern /possessiveness
- repeat oneself verbally
- seeks emotional security
- self-centered, self-important, and self-indulgent
- possess stamina
- searches out strangers
- wish for sympathy,
- generally talkative about self for attention
- talks quickly
- self-indulgent and attention-seeking
- saps others vitality
Situation to Use Heather
Everyone is at some time temporarily in the Heather state, but for some it becomes chronic, the extroverted person in a chronic Heather state often “invades your space” by coming oppressively close when they talk to you, even as you seek to get away, people who don’t care who they talk to, children who are in the ego development phase of childhood and who exuberantly tell a lot about themselves, people those who try to take it by force, and it backfires – repelling those whose affection they want most.
Heather as a Treatment
Heather is used for conditions related to severe egocentrism, personality disorder, Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder, headache, allergy, anemic, and infection. Mental issues like egotism, vanity, pathological self-love, craving for recognition, an inferiority complex, fear of being alone, talkativeness, abnormal need to be in the company of others, brought about by humiliation, rejection, boasting, need for attention, fear of not being acknowledged, talkativeness, feeling left out and loneliness.
Pet and Heather
If a pet is demanding, constant barking, or overly concerned with companionship.
Affirmation and Heather
You can choose some positive Affirmations along with Heather. For example,
- I choose to be secure within myself.
- I will identify with others and learn how to listen.
- I free myself to listen to my inner self.
VIBBES KADA – VK and Heather
VK is one of the best tools to Mimic Bach Flower Remedy. You can use VK without any hassle and make the best use of the remedy Heather for participation, identification with others, willingness to listen and help others, less talkative, ability to listen to others, empathy, ability to listen to the inner self, tolerance, and confidence.
Heather and Cosmic Serum
Balance Serum, Brain Serum, and Calm Down Serum are the best serum you can use with Honeysuckle.
Dose of Heather
The physical dose of a Bach Flower Remedy depends upon many criteria like age, intensity, and situation but with VK there is no need to set a particular quantity. VIBBES KADA is one of the best tool to mimic Bach Flower Remedy Heather energies even without any problem or hassle for you. Use VK more and more. Learn here how to use VK for BFR.