Willow: Keywords for this remedy are self-pity, isolation, more embittered, bitter, unforgiving, resentment, a need for revenge, an inability to reconcile, and being at odds with fate.
There are certain kinds of people who feel victimized by circumstances. They sometimes blame others for their slip of fate and may feel their life miserable or full of misfortunes. When a person becomes bitter and starts a blame game use Willow to cure him/ her completely.
When a person doesn’t accept their actual fault use, Willow. They always say it is not my fault. Here comes Willow as the Bach flower remedy. Willow remedy has frequent usage due to its efficiency. This world is full of Willow-like people. Willow paves the way for those who have suffered hardships or misfortune and are unable to comprehend without resentment or complaint. They even curse Divine for their unsuccessful life.
They perceive being in a frequent state of trials and tribulations, that it was unjust, and they become sad about it. There may also be cases of lacking interest even in those activities which they previously enjoyed. Willow is the remedy for those who often envy happy, successful, or well-settled people. They are often reluctant to the positive side of their lives. They complain about their lives and usually succumb to resentment and self-pity. Taking Willow is an easy way for helping people to perceive circumstances in a different way, why things are actually happening, and what’s the key behind it.
This Bach flower remedy helps the person to induce a sense of responsibility for their own choices and reality. There is a famous quote- “it’s not until you take responsibility for all of it that you can begin to change any of it”. Willow inculcates positivity and jubilance which in turn induces faith. Willow makes people compassionate, generous, and empathetic toward others. And it also makes people cognizant that negative thinking may attract misfortune which complaining is done about.
Some people hold the faith of everything being one and free will. This remedy helps them to alleviate the situation when they feel things have been getting convoluted or even out of control. This remedy also revives them when they feel helpless in a sea of other’s machinations. Trying to walk in the shoe of willow people, an example is quoted. It’s the person alone and the rest of the harsh world on another side that does not empathize with you about what you are and what you have been through. It’s not unusual for people to be high-tempered and portray others as hard people by their actions.
These kinds of people usually keep silent if they perceived injustice has been done in a hope that others will notice. While also perceiving them as a victim at the same time. The problem which is associated with this type of thinking is that others perceive the same way the affected person does. And even if they do so, they may not as per the expectation of Willow people.
These people sometimes show an exhibitionist kind of behavior trying to portray how miserable their life is. While the audience is least interested in their exhibition. Showing the world as a victimized person is not only self-destructive as it tells the world that the person has chosen what others wanted rather than what the person actually desires. Willow helps to resuscitate and rejuvenate the affected persons and help to restore back their powers and balance in life to lead a life gracefully and not with resentments.
Emotional Aspects and Symptoms of Willow
Some emotional aspects of a person who needs Willow are:
- abrasive with resentment
- self-pity, bitter nature
- selfish, sarcastic, and acrimonious
- bitterness, aggrieved and resentful
- anti-social due to silkiness
- seeks attention
- no sense of belonging and feels bitter
- pity self and discontentment
- unwanted and ostracized
- bereavement with resentment
- blames others
- broody about misfortune
- complains about others and when ill
- enjoys and seeks consolation
- cynicism, defensive, and destructive
- introspective depression
- despondency due to embitterment
- fault-finding with others
- disgruntled, downcast, and gloom
- sulkiness and sullen
- bitterness and resentment of GOD
- grumbles, moans, and mopes
- lacks a sense of humor
- tries to make an impression for sympathy
- lack of interest through embitterment
- introverted due to sulkiness and self-pity
- invokes illness through resentment and self-pity
- irritability due to ill-temper
- malicious thoughts
- mental arguments
- a martyr to resentment
- misbehavior to gain attention
- general misery in outlook with self-pity
- moody and intolerant
- annoyed with noise
- takes offense easily with introspection
- ostracised due to an angry attitude
- overacts for sympathy or attention
- over-anxious for self
- peace of mind disturbed by resentment
- pouts with resentment and self-pity
- inability to forgive uncovered by rebirthing
- recluse-by preference-due to resentment
- depressed and weepy during recovery
- refuses to be consoled yet
- manipulates consolation and sympathy through self-pity
- rejection with resentment and bitterness
- repressed emotions of resentment and bitterness
- resentment when unappreciated
- revolt at injustice
- unfairness, self-absorbed, and self-centered
- sensitive to criticism
- finds it hard to smile-depressed
- solace wants to be left alone to brood
- spiritless due to self-pity
- theatrical and self-indulgent
- tiresome due to a negative outlook
- feels used by others
Situation to Use Willow
Situations, where you can use Willow, are when another’s good fortune contrasts too sharply with our own situation and jealousy and resentment overtakes, the person who is tempted to put an end to someone else’s cheerfulness by doing something to spoil their day! in which feelings are powerfully projected into the outside world, with a destructive effect on the sufferer – and on everyone around him, for people who are very good at making demands, but never see a need to reciprocate, for one who criticizes to an extent that they finally alienate all those who once tried to help them, the chronic Willow type becomes more isolate, and more embittered over the injustices in his or her life, holds grudges, sometimes for years, and sometimes for reasons that have become unclear, rather than erupting and “having it out” with someone, he will smolder and emit clouds of toxic energy.
Willow as a Treatment
Willow can be used for pain, working to change negative thoughts, to deliberately focus on the positive rather than the negative, and thus begin to bring about positive changes in life, to take responsibility for his or her own fate, will cease being a victim, and will become the master of his own fate, will begin once again to enjoy life, to treat bitterness, resentment, a need for revenge, an inability to reconcile, and being at odds with fate, bitterness, disappointment, feeling offended or slighted.
Pet and Willow
If a pet is sulky after being retired.
Affirmation and Willow
You can choose some positive Affirmations along with Willow. For example,
- I accept responsibility for my life situation.
- I release all bitterness and envy I keep stored within me.
- I choose to guide my life with certainty and firmness.
VIBBES KADA – VK and Willow
VK is one of the best tools to Mimic Bach Flower Remedy. You can use VK without any hassle and make the best use of the remedy Willow for relinquishment of rancor, positive view of life, optimism and faith, freedom from guilt, self-responsibility, self-respect, dissolution of bitterness, resentment, and envy, mastery of one’s own destiny, desire for transformation, relinquishment of the role of victim, shame, self-empowerment, happiness, faith, inspiration, in-spirited, releasing love, forgiveness, safety, decisiveness.
Willow and Cosmic Serum
Mood Up Serum, Balance Serum, and Study Serum are the best serums that can be used with Bach Flower Remedy Willow.
Dose of Willow
The physical dose of a Bach Flower Remedy (BFR) depends upon many criteria like age, intensity, and situation but with VK there is no need to set a particular quantity. Learn here how to use VK for BFR.
VIBBES KADA is one of the best tool to mimic bach flower remedy Willow energies even without any ritual or hassle for you. Use VK more and more.